It's amazing we pro create at all.

The old "men, vs women" in the battle over sex. Ask any married couple, and both will have their complaints about the other, but take firm stands on their own behaviors. We are just wired different. Women lead with their heart, and then let the brain step in, and usually to late by then. Men think with there, well hell, they just don't think. They let their little "Gunthers" do the roaming, and enjoy the ride without a thought about tomorrow. Men, are extremely visual, and woman are extremely emotional. Men, can be doing there taxes in the middle of Grand Central Station at noon, and will immediately "pop" to life at the slightest glimpse of a tit. Women (mainly when younger) take their time, they are working out some well orchestrated fantasy in their head. "Oh Sabastian, I love you so" Most often the difference between us, ends in terrible disaster, and then we brush ourselves off, and attempt it again. I swear, our blinders are bigger then any horse I've seen wear. No matter how much we learn, or how much we try things different, we still find ourselves scratching our heads and wondering what happened. I would like to give the men a few tips on things they find hot, and a turn on, but most woman don't.

1. Women do not find it a turn on or sexy to have someone (especially prior to first date)send a text with a pic of your penis. More then likely you wont have that first date, or even next call. Your penis has also been shown to everyone in her life. Parents, siblings, co-workers, and all of facebook.

2. We don't find it hot n sexy when you act "tough" and loud, in a crowded location. Women are not impressed with men fighting.

3. Sitting with you and "your boys" while you high five each other over getting laid the night before. Bragging about being "the man" is a big no no! You forget, we know the truth.

4. Not willing to take the time, effort, and commitment to satisfying her both physically, and emotionally will get you ditched.

5. No communication. You can't ignore her all day and expect her to melt in your arms. Wont happen.

6.  Don't ridicule her weight, or appearance at all. Support her by doing things with her. Extremely bad if you have a belly by Bud, balding with a comb over, and body oder.

7.  Contrary to popular belief, we don't want your sweaty, smelly body all over us. Looks sexy on the young male model. It doesn't look sexy on a middle aged porker.

8. Don't be a total wuss, have some back bone, but remember she is not property, and you do not own her.