Have you ever looked over at your clueless partner, and wish you could really say what you hold inside? Well here you go. Sign as anonymous, and write out exactly what you would say. Cuss, yell, accuse, confess, whatever you have to say to them. Feels good!
I always wanted to tell you something. Although, I have long got over my bitterness at how you treated me, at the end of our relationship, and a few years following it. When we were together you were so spun out, that I didn't even know you anymore. You were mean, gone, or gross. I had stopped loving you. It happens when left alone most of the time, even after begging for you to be there with your family. Still, I took care of our child, cleaned the house, and cooked your dinners. Well, I had my moment to smile to myself one night. You had been gone on one of your spun outings to where I never knew. You were with another loser neighbor that was spun as well. I made dinner that night, and cooked up a London Broil. Our son and I sat, and enjoyed our dinner, without you of course. After we ate, I went to the kitchen to clean up, and realized the meat was gone. I started hunting for it, and found it. It was in the extra room. You know the one with the dirty cat box, and room full of kittens? Yep, there it was, in the middle of kitty litter. It had been gnawed on by the litter of kittens, and Momma kitty. So much in a few spots the meat was white. I picked it up, and at first went to throw it away, when I stopped and thought. Nuh uh. I know what I'll do.... Hours went by til you came barging in, with your friend and fellow tweaker, demanding to be fed. So guess what? Yeah, I served it to you. You both sat at the counter chomping away, and me smiling. You ate every bight, and even said it was really good. Buawahahahaha! So gross, but I loved my silent revenge. I never told you, and never will. You deserved it.
Dear Pyscho stalking Ex. Why is it every time you're between relationships you decide to stalk me? I dumped you for a reason and it's been 17 yrs. Get over yourself already. Stop looking me up on social media, stop sending me messages telling me that I was the problem, and if you tell me one more time that we could make it work, if I would just get over myself, I am going to scream. You cheated, not me. You were the possessive nut job who wanted to control my life. If I find you parked out in front of my house again, I will let my husband deal with you the way he's longed to for the last 10 yrs or so. Sincerely; She who never wants to see or talk to you again.
Wow, how frustrating! My thoughts are this. Don't let your husband as tempting as it may be, approach, or communicate with your ex in a form. I know it's hard, and you're talking to the girl with a quick temper, but let the authorities handle it. Exterior cameras on the house, and camera n notebook nearby you (obviously if physical harm is a concern, I don't recommend grabbing the camera.) But for general driving by, or parking in a area near you, then keep detailed records. Pics, time, where, and so forth. This is assuming you have already got a order to stay away. If not get one. The stalker is there because he wants to be in your life, no matter how. Even a negative reaction is still contact. That's what he wants. So, if you allow your husband to confront him, then you are only keeping him in the game. There are only a couple ways out by then. Death, or prison for both parties. You can lose a life you love, to both death or prison if you handle it yourself, or let the authorities handle it and let it be his life that meets these options. The authorities, can be difficult to handle the situation, so it is up to you to stay on top of it, and also suggest contacting a victims advocate for help. Best of luck.
Have you ever looked over at your clueless partner, and wish you could really say what you hold inside? Well here you go. Sign as anonymous, and write out exactly what you would say. Cuss, yell, accuse, confess, whatever you have to say to them. Feels good!
ReplyDeleteDear Ex Husband,
ReplyDeleteI always wanted to tell you something. Although, I have long got over my bitterness at how you treated me, at the end of our relationship, and a few years following it. When we were together you were so spun out, that I didn't even know you anymore. You were mean, gone, or gross. I had stopped loving you. It happens when left alone most of the time, even after begging for you to be there with your family. Still, I took care of our child, cleaned the house, and cooked your dinners.
Well, I had my moment to smile to myself one night. You had been gone on one of your spun outings to where I never knew. You were with another loser neighbor that was spun as well. I made dinner that night, and cooked up a London Broil. Our son and I sat, and enjoyed our dinner, without you of course. After we ate, I went to the kitchen to clean up, and realized the meat was gone. I started hunting for it, and found it. It was in the extra room. You know the one with the dirty cat box, and room full of kittens? Yep, there it was, in the middle of kitty litter. It had been gnawed on by the litter of kittens, and Momma kitty. So much in a few spots the meat was white. I picked it up, and at first went to throw it away, when I stopped and thought. Nuh uh. I know what I'll do.... Hours went by til you came barging in, with your friend and fellow tweaker, demanding to be fed. So guess what? Yeah, I served it to you. You both sat at the counter chomping away, and me smiling. You ate every bight, and even said it was really good. Buawahahahaha! So gross, but I loved my silent revenge. I never told you, and never will. You deserved it.
The first time I dropped his toothbrush in the toilet, it was by accident...the times that followed were not accidents.
Deletesilent revenge rules- let him in on it, then hint that there may be "other times" & leave it as that.
ReplyDeleteHa Ha~ Evil minds! Any chomps into kitty litter?
DeleteGood for you! I would have done the exact same thing! I admire you!
DeleteDear Jealous, Abusive, Control-freak, and all round wanker of an ex husband.
ReplyDeleteThis one's for you fuckwit!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=my7sxZ0KfHU
Dear wanna call yourself boyfriend,
ReplyDeleteYou are a dick sometimes, and I don't know why I stick around for your pathetic, and childish tantrums.
Dear Pyscho stalking Ex.
ReplyDeleteWhy is it every time you're between relationships you decide to stalk me? I dumped you for a reason and it's been 17 yrs. Get over yourself already. Stop looking me up on social media, stop sending me messages telling me that I was the problem, and if you tell me one more time that we could make it work, if I would just get over myself, I am going to scream. You cheated, not me. You were the possessive nut job who wanted to control my life.
If I find you parked out in front of my house again, I will let my husband deal with you the way he's longed to for the last 10 yrs or so.
Sincerely; She who never wants to see or talk to you again.
Wow, how frustrating! My thoughts are this. Don't let your husband as tempting as it may be, approach, or communicate with your ex in a form. I know it's hard, and you're talking to the girl with a quick temper, but let the authorities handle it. Exterior cameras on the house, and camera n notebook nearby you (obviously if physical harm is a concern, I don't recommend grabbing the camera.) But for general driving by, or parking in a area near you, then keep detailed records. Pics, time, where, and so forth. This is assuming you have already got a order to stay away. If not get one. The stalker is there because he wants to be in your life, no matter how. Even a negative reaction is still contact. That's what he wants. So, if you allow your husband to confront him, then you are only keeping him in the game. There are only a couple ways out by then. Death, or prison for both parties. You can lose a life you love, to both death or prison if you handle it yourself, or let the authorities handle it and let it be his life that meets these options. The authorities, can be difficult to handle the situation, so it is up to you to stay on top of it, and also suggest contacting a victims advocate for help. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteThe police told me they couldn't do anything unless he came on my property. Which, as far as I know, he hasn't.
ReplyDeleteDear asshole Boss,
ReplyDeleteI laugh every time I think about having sex on your desk, the lobby, and the counter in the rest room, and the table we had a meeting at the next day.